West African Do's and Don'tsDo's Greet everyone with a smile
and firm handshake with the right hand. It is considered the height
of rudeness to speak to someone without greeting them first. If your right
hand is dirty or wet, offer your wrist. |
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Don’t stare people in the eyes. West Africans interpret this as a sexual come-on... |
Offer small gifts to friends, such as a bag of tea and sugar (for a man), a bar of soap (for women), or 10 kola nuts (for older men). These are traditional gifts of respect and thanks. To show enormous gratitude to someone, buy them a sheep. Wear loose, non-form-fitting clothes that cover your entire leg. West Africans wear shorts as underwear. A woman’s thighs are never displayed in public. Offer part of the food you are eating to whomever is near you, even strangers. It is considered very rude to eat in front of people. Even if you barely have enough for yourself, you should nonetheless offer out of politeness. Most people will refuse by saying they are full or take only a small amount to be polite. Adopt an African name. Western names are hard to pronounce and have no meaning in West Africa. African last names identity a person as a member of a clan, tribe, or other societal group, even if only as a temporary adopted member. When someone asks you what your name is, say you don’t have one
and request that they give you a name. Most often they will give you
their own last name and treat you like they would a cousin. Don’ts: Don’t touch money,
food, merchandise, or another person’s skin with your left hand.
The left hand is used for dirty tasks, such as nose blowing and cleaning
oneself. By Rachel Schneller. |
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